Job in Exile

The most competent thing Job's friends ever did required no words.

"Then they sat on the ground with him for seven days and nights. No one said a word to Job, for they saw that his suffering was too great for words." (Job 2:13, NLT)

Seven days. Then Job spoke, and the chaos began. 

If you have left a church, a community, or a version of faith that stopped fitting, you may recognize that timeline. Some of us got the silence for a while. Some of us got the explanations right away.

For the past several months on Cabernet and Pray, I have been working through the book of Job with David Gushee's Job in Exile: A Guide for Spiritual Refugees. Here is where we have been. You can listen on any podcast app you prefer, or click the titles below to watch the videos.

1. From the Penthouse to the Outhouse 

Job lost four things, and the last two are the ones deconstruction knows: his theology and his place in his community. I argue that we file those as consequences when we should call them grief.

2. When Your Friends Go Silent

Job's friends gave him the silence of presence. Plenty of us got the silence of absence. I tell the story of a friend of mine who showed up in my own journey.

3. New Eyes, Old Blind Spots

The man the text calls blameless owned people. Gushee observes that "Job saw his servants as equals in God's sight yet kept them enslaved." What happens when we move forward in some ways but not others?

4. When Friends Become Accusers

Zophar's argument ends with God going easy on Job, who "deserves far worse." Job also believes the community may kill him.

5. Refusing to Lie to Keep the Peace

Job could have ended it with one false apology, and he declined. Gushee says, "There is nothing quite as offensive as being called to repent for sins one has not committed."

6. Offering Answers the Story Refuses

Elihu has six chapters of certainty, and God never mentions him. I argue that posture around belief matters more than the belief itself.

7. What God Says When You Demand an Answer

God answers from the whirlwind and addresses none of Job's questions. Job's last words in 42:6 can be translated several ways, and my Bible's version is one Gushee argues against.

8. A Guide for Spiritual Refugees

My interview with Dr. Gushee and his advice: "Don't ever go back into a Christian community that will not allow you to ask your questions."

After all that isolation, Job's table fills again. The NLT of Job 42:11 reads: "Then all his brothers, sisters, and former friends came and feasted with him in his home." Much of his life is restored. But Job is not the same person.

If you haven't yet, I invite you to dive into episode one and explore this beautiful story.

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